Saturday, June 12, 2010

height problem

i am a 16 years old girl.i am 162cm tall.i want to reach the height of 170cm.my classmates are all tall while i am just average.i've tried very hard to grow tall but i find it difficult.can u give me some advises on how to grow taller??

Hahaha.. my hair!

I am 5 months old and I already have white hair and I also can't stay awake for more than an hour. Should I cut all my black hair off or dye my hair white? Or half-half like Cruella Deville from 101 Dalmations (she is my idol!)? I don't want it to be all black. I drink 7 bottles of coffee a day and yet im still sleepy. I've just added soy sauce into the drink. Nothing seems to be working for me! Helpppp!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Oh yes, I am a BOY. I love pink, is that a problem?

I don't know what to do. ^_^

I am a 16 years old girl and in school, there are two people have been stalking me recently. I confronted them and asked them what is their problem. I faced them personally to find out was the reason but they didnt give me any reply. Instead, they told me how they felt to me. I am confused between these two boys. By the way, they are my classmates but we rarely talk to each other. So, I don't think I have those feelings. What should I do by not hurting their feeling? How can I tell them that I am not interested in having a real relationship? I am stucked. Please help me.

My husband and my best friend are having an affair.

My problem concerns my best friend of ten years. (We have been friends since we were fifteen.) I got married two years ago and have a very happy family with a kid. Unfortunately, i found out that my husband and my best friend are having an affair. They had been together for three years. They had been meeting each other without noticing me. I felt lost and sad that my best friend and my husband cheated on me. What should i do now?? Should i have a divorce with my husband?

Too Much Homework!

The problem comes from my teacher, James. He gives homework every lesson. He even gives us homework during exams weeks. I am fed up! Now every night I can only dream of killing him because he gives us so much homework.I hope someone could save me from doing this stupid things.HELP!

Exams--The Hurricane...

Hi..
I'm a Form 4 student..
I'm getting crazy in facing my numerous exams..
There's exam in every month of school days..
My mom is blasting my ears with words like..
'Go study!!' "Switch off the tv!!' 'Why are your results so trashed!?'
Exam = Hurricane
Leaving misery before and after it comes..
I need entertainment too..
Not just studies..
All work and no play makes jack a dull boy..
She should know it..
I'm getting fed up..
What should I do???
By: Lonely Boy

Stress problems

My problem concerns the matter that we students are having too much stress. The stress accumulates from school and tuition. My parents have a high expectation of me and this does not help my emotional levels. Naturally like all good kids, I want to meet up to their expectations but sometimes it could be tough. I tried to talk to my parents but they come up with words such as 'This is all for your own good. You are not mature enough to make coherent decisions. We are trying to pave your road to your future.' And we ended up arguing. It pains me to see the hurt on their expressions when I tried to defy them. What should I do so that both sides could settle this matter properly?

Homework Tsunami






My problem concerns my teacher, James Cleere.





Maybe he had some PROBLEMS, he is giving LOADS of homework recently.





Students these days have a lot of pressure from their parents: music classes, tuitions, sport tranings, etc.





Most of all, we have exams every 3 months!! Preparing for the exams would kill us.





We can hardly breathe. There is no entertainment AT ALL!!





I've came to the BC to relax. I don't EXPECT getting ANY HOMEWORK here.





HOW am I going to survive in this TSUNAMI??





WHO is going to SAVE me????





Lazy students

My problem concerns my students. They never do their homework. Should I call their parents, or just let it slide?

Friday, June 11, 2010

My Girlfriend's Name

My problem concerns my girlfriend, Ali. We have been together for 3 years now. People are always tell me to dump her because of her name. Everyone always thinks SHE is a HE by listening to her name. I am very disappointed about her name. How can such a parent gives such ugly, confussing and messed up named like that. What should I do ?

backstabbing bestfriend

I have a massive problem.

I have this best friend, and we were really close but now we're fighting. She changed so much throughout the year, becoming bossy and controlling person. It got really worse when she found out I was being friends with her boyfriend. I mean come on...we're just friends. Nothing more, nothing less. And I won't stop being friends with him because of her selfish needs.

She started backstabbing, using my other friends. She spread rumours about me being a boyfriend stealer, which was not true at all. I want to everything to go back to normal...but what should I do?

NO PARTIES FOR GEEKS?!

Well, I used to be a girl whose STUDY COMES FIRST.
I would always bring a book with me and my friends used to be the STUDY-TYPE kind of people
Then I met this gang of friends who go for PARTIES all the time.
I followed them for once and I thought going PARTYING IS REALLY FUN.
I loved going out and I tried talking to my study-type of FRIENDS
but they looked at me differently and couldn't accept that I'm a PARTY-LOVER
and my new gang of friends found out that I was a GEEK
and they say they DIDN'T LIKE the girl who smelled like books...
What should I do?

someone stole my girlfriend

I found out my girlfriend has been treating me quite bad recently.She never reply me when i call her or message her and i found out that she had an affair with 1 of my best friends.What should i do?As i feel so guilty about this.

Love is just a matter

I have a boyfriend who studies in the same school as me. He is a loving and caring person, especially to me. Unfortunately, I can't forget my ex-boyfriend. My boyfriend knew this but he is still treating me well. I felt very guilty and sorry to him. What should I do?

Books Before Blondes

Hi

I am James C, I am 17 this year. This year I am facing a major exam known as the SPM. On the other hand, I met this girl name Nicole David. She is one year younger, but she is mature and really nice to me. I am in love with her. Later i asked her to be my girl friend. She accepted. After being together for 4 months on the month of May i started to neglect her and focus on my studies. I am doing this so that my parents wouldn't reject on the idea of being in a relationship. Nicole David thinks I am not a good boyfriend and we have been argueing a lot lately. Should I focus on my studies or spend more of my time with Nicole David who is really lovely?

Friendship

My problem is about my friends and me. He is too caprice and stuborn. he always did the stuff that i dislike. He never think about what he did . He want me to lie to teacher that he din't cheat in the examination. He want me to explain to teacher that he din't cheat. What should i do?

My students!

Hi

My students never do their homework. Should I phone their parents, or be nice to them. I worried that if I'm too nice they'll get lazy and never do their homework again. What should I do?

Thursday, May 6, 2010

My friend is a backstabber

OMG! I have a girlfriend that is sweet when she is around us. As sweet as candy! The problem is she likes to stabbed me in the back and she always do. I can't believed that my friends believed the rumors that she spread. She is such a loser!
Should I pretend like nothing happened or talk to her face to face?

FRIENDSHIP

I have a problem with my friend. He is my friend for 6months i met him in British Council. I treat him like my brother no more than that, but he want me to be his girlfriend. We have both missuderstanding about it, and then weren`t talking for 2months. I want to him for being friend again. Plesae help me :'(

I don't know my fiance..

I am 24 years girl and i live in kl.
I engaged 3 years ago, and i love my fiance..
Last week i found out my fiance hang out with another girl but i didn't say anything to him.
Now i don't know if he loves me or not and i can't make a right decision.
I am so confused now and in bad situation.please help me, what should i do!!

BLUR.............

I AM AFTER MY SPM. I GOT A GOOD RESULTS AND I WANT TO DO MY COMMERCIAL PILOT LICENSE.

BUT MY MY UNCLE IS ASKING ME TO DO MY DEGREE FIRST BEFORE JOINING A FLYING SCHOOL. I REALLY DONT KNOW WEATHER I SHOULD DO MY FLYING FIRST OR TO DO MY DEGREE THEN MY FLYING. BUT MY PARENTS TOLD ME THAT THEY ARE WILLING TO PAY FOR ANY OF MY DECISION.

MY FAMILY ARE ASKING ME TO DO MY DEGREE FIRST BECAUSE THEY FEEL THAT IF I AM MEDICALY GROUNDED LATER.SO I CAN USE MY DEGREE AS AN ALTERNATIVE.

WHICH SHOULD I DO? AND HOW CAN I MAKE THEM AGREE WITH MY DECISION....THANK YOU

Rowdy Students

I have a problem with my class. I'm an English teacher, and the students in my class don't show me any respect. They are always talking to each other in their own language, and when I ask them to be quiet they just ignore me! I'm very frustrated. Why can I do?

how i can prove to my parents ???

I and jack are couple almost 4 mounths but i havent told to my parents anything about jack yet.Then we decided to get marrid with each other thats why i decieded to bring jack to show my parents and also ask a permission to get married with jack.my family is wealthy and also is royal family.my first family impression of the jack it awfull.so they reject jack as my daughter boyfriend beacuse he is quit poor.however he is smart and hardworking person.He just started to earn money and im sure he succesfull in future.how i can proof to my parents my dicision abot getting marrid with jack is right??

relationships

My best friend and her husband have fallen out about her study. She is my best friend since i was a little. She always dreamed continue her master degree but her husband absolutly disagree. because her husband want she stay at home and take care their children. Moreover, he is very jealous when she communicates with men. so,my best friend didn't continue to study master degree anymore.Fortunetly,after a year she got a good job. Now they're happy.

CAREER

I had my stpm result in february. Now , i have a problem in choosing course . I have a good result, but i don't know choose which course. I love business and law , but i only can choose one course. If i study business , i can help my father to run his business. But my teachers and friends advise me to study law because i will have a brigther future if i study law . Ahhh..., please give me some advises.

I don't know if i am in love or no...

I am 26 years old boy and i live in kl.
i engaged 3 years ago and i love my girl for past 3years.
last month i met a girl in my office and we talked together and had dinner...
at last month we went out toghter every day and now i think i fall in love with her!!!
I don't know what sould i do...
Who can help me?????

careers

Last year i had a problem with my career,i had finish my diploma and i couldn't get any job at all.Because all employers need working experinces or special skills like english writing and spoken,so i took a course from BC.After 3 month,my english was improve alot,and then i interview again at last i sucess go through the company as a clark.Unfortunately,i lost my job last month because the company went bankrupt,so i jobless now.I need a new job as soon as possible.SPEARD SOME LOVE......HELP ME PLEASE!

the guy had no enough money

I have a useless boyfriend. He is working and good looking but his income do not meet my expectation! He is not from a rich family and he is not a hardworking person. We planned to marry next year but he doesn't have enough money. I want a grand wedding that cost around RM100,000 but he insist to have a simple wedding because he can't afford such an exspensive wedding.
Should I dump him and look for a rich guy or postpone our wedding?

Relationships

I had met one girl in the club last year. After that we fallen in love and we have plan to get married by next year.We have a little problem that our culture is different.My parents are traditional type that very concern about same culture.I am worried if my parents don't accept my gilrfriend but I love her very much and I can't live without her. But if my parents choose a girl for me to become my wife that don't make a problem.

Aaahhh!!

Help me!

I have a problem....